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Shelby Abbott

This Is Me Being Not Enough: Ruth Chou Simons

September 16, 2023

As a Taiwanese immigrant, Ruth Chou Simons was always head-down, proving her worth. She chats about shame-honor culture, the hamster wheel of never being enough—and one mind-blowing "aha" that changes it all.

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Real Life Loading… recaps a killer first year with its best-of highlight reel.
September 9, 2023
If you could go back in time, what advice would you give yourself? Jared and Becky Wilson know what they’d tell themselves in their 20s—and they literally wrote the book about it. Grab smart thoughts and wise stories for a regret-free decade.
September 2, 2023
A Multiple Sclerosis diagnosis stunned Crossfit competitor Ben Fallon. But through fierce diligence and relentless joy, MS has become his vehicle for tenacious faith and personal metamorphosis.
August 26, 2023
Podcaster and vocal artist Alisa Childers plowed through years of doubt—and managed to come out stronger on the other side. She talks about the intellectual curiosity and tenacity of her faith renaissance, and how to defend truth without being “that” guy.
August 19, 2023
How do you share your story so it makes sense and makes a dent? And how do you talk about Jesus without being awkward? Shelby Abbott’s got 6 ideas.
August 12, 2023
Singleness can be full of weirdness: with married friends, finding community, wishing you were with someone/glad you aren’t, and the dumb things people say. Our Singles Roundtable examines what the Bible actually says about singleness—and how to live a single life you love.
August 5, 2023
Single and Christian: Does it get a bad rap? On Real Life Loading, Shelby Abbott hosts Gen Z guests Barbara, Logan, Joshua, Chloe, and Zion, who ratchet concepts of singleness to the next level—which, they argue, can be a high-octane experience in God’s hands. They also get honest about what it’s really like to be single in the Church—including misconceptions, representation, leadership, and even what not to say to singles.
July 29, 2023
Cut off at the knees by church hurt? Bad imitations of God don’t necessarily mean God’s the bad actor. Dr. Alison Cook gets real about church hurt in all its avatars—and how each hits your own relationship with God. Learn how to sort out tacky misrepresentations of God from His bona fide character, take baby steps toward healing, and rebuild the trust that got flushed. Don’t let church hurt get the last word.
July 22, 2023
Humility: It’s kinda like groveling, right? Author Gavin Ortlund thinks humility is not only an unmissable mark of a Jesus-follower, but also the tripwire for the life you long for. And he’s got tips to get there.
July 15, 2023
Lust: Women deal with it, too. Author Jessica Harris shares her brutal path through porn and sexual shame as a Christian woman—and defines a pathway out.
July 8, 2023
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About Real Life Loading...

Real Life Loading... is a mashup of biblical truth, personal authenticity, cultural awareness, and straight-up humor for young adults who are hungry for more than plastic Christianity. It’s a podcast about the life-changing power of Jesus for relationships in a constantly shifting culture. If that sounds interesting, pull up a chair.

About Shelby Abbott

Shelby Abbott is a Philly-based author, speaker, and campus minister who digs his wife, his daughters, sneakers, vinyl, movies, authenticity, and a healthy dose of positive sarcasm. Most of all, he's wild about Jesus and His ability to change everything about life.

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