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Same-Sex Attraction, Mother Issues, and More Caller Questions from March 28, 2025

March 28, 2025
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Topics: Criticism, Same-Sex Attraction, Teens, Dating, Mother Issues, Communication
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns

Caller Questions & More:

1. Dr. Jill discusses a critical spirit, which is an outward expression of what is going on internally.

2. My daughter struggled with same-sex attraction in middle school, and I don’t know if she still struggles in high school.

3. Is it a good thing if my 41yo Christian girlfriend is 14yrs older than me?

4. I can’t share my pain with my mom because she dismisses it or makes it all about her.

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