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Screen Time, Narcissists, and More Caller Questions from September 4, 2024

September 4, 2024
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Topics: Parenting, In-laws, Controllers, Teens, Screens, Grandparenting, Marijuana, Boundaries, Narcissists
Hosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Jim Burns

Caller Questions & More:

1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how presence mattered to Jesus when He blessed the children that were brought to Him after the disciples had rebuked the parents.

2. My sister-in-law is bossy; she demanded that when we go back East, we have to call her.

3. My friend’s 14yo daughter has screen time without any filters; what are the detrimental effects of screen time for teens and kids?

4. My 19yo grandson started his own business but now is depressed and addicted to marijuana; his parents have told him he has a week to finish his business or he’ll have to move out. What is my role?

5. I believe my 18yo son is a narcissist and have been told it is a phase; how do I get him to respect others?

Suggested Resources:
Boundaries
Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated World
Understanding Your Child Who Smokes Pot
How People Grow

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