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Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: September 29, 2023

September 29, 2023

Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Becky Brown, Special Guest Shaunti Feldhan, co-author of Secrets of Sex and Marriage

Caller Questions:

- How do I encourage my wife to be more open in sharing her sexual needs with me?

- Is the receptive desire you talked about considered passive?

- I have never climaxed due to being abused when I was 9yo. Is there hope?

- The answers you gave the previous caller helped me. Thank you so much for helping the body of Christ to heal!

Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

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Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - Did my wife choose to live with family after surgery because of my alcohol addiction? Did I do the right thing to file for divorce after she left me? - I feel like I’m abandoning my adult son by ceasing contact. He has struggled with drug addiction for 20yrs and is now homeless. - How do I accept my nephew letting his 8yo twins get permanent tattoos? I’ll see them at Thanksgiving, and it’s been hard for me to accept this.
September 28, 2023
Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions: - What do I say to my close friend who is a strong woman of God, but she’s devastated because one of her cousins is in hospice and his brother suddenly died last night? - In trying to reconcile with my ex-husband who struggles with crack addiction, what should my boundaries be? - Am I wrong to require that my 17yo nephew leave my home when he turns 18yo? He’s in my custody, and he’s been getting high. - I overcame a porn addiction from your help on the radio years ago, but I’m more isolated than ever and need help.
September 27, 2023
Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: - I’m doing counseling at a local church and heard about splankna therapy; is this type of therapy Christian? - As a Christian, do I let things go when my husband isn’t being honest? After he used my car, I found pantyhose in it. - Should I ask my husband to leave? We signed up for the Intimacy in Marriage workshop and he is giving me the silent treatment. - What can I suggest to my niece who miscarried and then just lost another baby due in November?
September 26, 2023
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Becky Brown, Special Guest Shaunti Feldhan, co-author of Secrets of Sex and Marriage Caller Questions: - Why don’t couples share with one another about what they enjoy in the bedroom? - Do you have any tips for me if my husband overcame his addiction to porn, but I am no longer interested in sex with him?
September 25, 2023
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - How do I help my niece who is helping her father with dementia, but he is mean to her? - Is my husband gaslighting me, or am I the one who is the problem? - How do I set boundaries with my ex-husband who is verbally abusive to my 14yo and 12yo children? - I try to read the Word but I don’t feel led by God and I’ve gone to self-harm; what should I do?
September 22, 2023
Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: - How can I walk in the spirit and forgive a person who borrowed money from me but never paid me back? - I am helping to raise my 2yo grandson who throws tantrums; what can I do? - How do I get unstuck if I’m 76yo, divorced, homeless, and all I do is sit and cry? - My ex-husband threatened to rape and kill me, but my daughter still has a relationship with him; do I talk to her about what happened? - How do I talk my daughter out of having a civil ceremony with a man from Singapore? They want to sign the papers but not have the wedding for another year.
September 21, 2023
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Chris Williams, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: - What steps can I take to grieve my divorce if I’ve been married 42yrs, my husband is addicted to Vicodin, drinks, and had an affair? - How do I start a Life Recovery Group? I am a recovering addict and have been sober over 2yrs. - The woman I’m dating called me a con-artist and it hurt me deeply; should I move on from her? - Should I be a pastor again if I’ve had a sexual addiction from a young age and went to jail for 5yrs because of it?
September 20, 2023
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions: - Do you have any advice for me as a 31yo divorced woman with values and having a hard time dating men in this modern world? - How can I get my siblings to get help? We grew up with an abusive mom who was a medium. - How do I get out of my marriage once and for all? I’ve divorced and remarried my abusive husband three times.
September 19, 2023
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - What route do I follow after my daughter gave marijuana gummies to my 15yo granddaughter to calm down? My granddaughter is cutting. - Why didn’t you recommend that the previous caller call the school to tell them about her granddaughter and daughter? - What happens at your Intimacy in Marriage Workshop? My daughter is engaged, and I would like to send her and her fiancé. - Can you give me advice on how I should articulate my testimony? I don’t want to push people away. - My wife left me 2wks ago and I attempted suicide. Where can I find strength and help?
September 18, 2023
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - I have been clean for a year from alcohol and drugs after I hit rock bottom and had to live in my car! - What advice can I give my 38yo daughter who is hurt because her aunt doesn’t want her involved with her wedding? - Is it my responsibility to report my ex to his church for molesting my daughter as a child? - How can I help my 22yo son who came home from college and was diagnosed with persistent depressive disorder?
September 15, 2023
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Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

About New Life Live!

America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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