New Life Live!

Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: June 5, 2024

June 5, 2024

Topics: HabitsCaregivingMaking DecisionsSelf WorthDatingFriendshipDepressionSuicide
Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Sheri Keffer

Caller Questions:

1. Dr. Alice Benton shares What To Do To Change a Habit.

2. After caregiving for my mom until she passed, how do I determine where I want to live?

3. Why do I keep attracting unsafe people if I’m a safe person? Why do opposites attract?

4. I’ve set up an appointment to be euthanized because I can’t handle life and don’t know how to tell my 29yo daughter or fiancée.

Suggested Resources:
Emotional Freedom Workbook
Changes That Heal
Take Your Life Back

Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

Archives

Topics: Christian Walk, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Narcissists, Sexual IntegrityHosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: 1. JJ West shares about One-Anothering vs. Othering. 2. How do I get my husband out of bed? When I try to get him to do something, he argues and then goes back to sleep. 3. How do I heal my relationship with my adult adopted daughter? She cut off communication when I tried to reconcile. 4. I’ve been married 27yrs to a narcissist and found texts from another woman. 5. I wanted to let your first caller know that I’ve been 20yrs clean from drugs and once I was off of methadone, I still had the urge to use. You have to keep working the program. Suggested Resources:Life Recovery WorkbookDoing Life with Your Adult ChildrenIntimate DeceptionLife Recovery Bible
June 4, 2024
Topics: Drug Addiction, Childhood Trauma, Abandonment, Christian Walk, Childhood Abuse, Finances, GuiltHosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares with parents How Drugs Are Different Today. 2. I had to be a caregiver to my mom when I was a child, and now I care for my sister who has schizophrenia; does someone’s childhood affect them their whole life? 3. I’m struggling with my community letting drag queens read to little children. 4. My 5yr relationship with a woman who has been abused since childhood ended; how can you help someone when their family says they deserved the abuse? 5. After inheriting money from my dad and not telling my husband who owes money for his taxes, what do I do about my guilt? Suggested Resources:Take Your Life BackForgiving Our Fathers and MothersEvery Woman’s BibleHow We Love
June 3, 2024
Topics: Brain Issues, Counseling, Childhood Trauma, Depression, Adult ChildrenHosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer explains her Triune Council of the Brain Analogy (how triggers affect the brain). 2. My wife went to biblical counselors, but they never even asked about her past; what do you say to my wife or the counselors who have convinced her she’s okay? 3. How can I be more compassionate and supportive with my adult daughter who is depressed? I can’t grasp how or why she has gotten to this point. 4. What are your thoughts on the Internal Family Systems therapy model? It’s extremely popular. Suggested Resources:How We LoveTake Your Life BackUnderstanding and Loving a Person with Depression100 Days To Freedom from Depression
May 31, 2024
Topics: Adult Children, Parenting, Christian Walk, Affairs, Difficult Conversations, Same-Sex AttractionHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares What To Do When a Loved One Won’t Seek Help. 2. How can my husband and I present a united front if my daughter’s boyfriend will be moving in with her and we don’t agree? 3. Should I always submit and defer to my husband? Should I stop attending church because my husband has stopped? 4. My husband has been unfaithful several times in the 11yrs we’ve been married. 5. How can I lovingly talk to my granddaughter in college and help her realize that dating a woman is not right? Suggested Resources:Doing Life with Your Adult ChildrenHow We LoveSacred MarriageIntimate DeceptionEmbodied
May 30, 2024
Topics: Surrender, Codependency, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Physical AbuseHosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions & More: 1. Chris Williams and Dr. Sheri Keffer share about Resistance That Blocks Surrender. 2. How can I fix myself to be able to communicate with my daughter who is a single mom and only reaches out when she needs me? 3. I have a 22yo granddaughter who lives with us and has been in-and-out of rehab for fentanyl addiction; what do I do to help her? 4. I left a violent marriage of 3yrs, my third marriage; how can I not make the same mistake again? Suggested Resources:Take Your Life BackLife Recovery BibleHow We Love
May 29, 2024
Topics: Social Media, Addictions, Alcohol, Anger, Isolation, ADD, Adult Children, Self Worth, AcceptanceHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares about Social Media as a Digital Drug (does technology distract you?). 2. My 49yo daughter is a recovering alcoholic, has taken up smoking, and is angry at everything; what do I do? 3. I stopped working a year ago and have become reclusive; how do I overcome it? 4. How do I help my 20yo nephew who struggles with ADHD, is kickboxing, has had car accidents, and I’m concerned he’s going to get injured? 5. At 71yo, how do I unpack the many hurts I’ve gone through in life? I am an Asian physician who is a Christian, struggles for acceptance, and feels out of place. Suggested Resources:Doing Life with Your Adult ChildrenHow We LoveEmotional Freedom Workbook
May 28, 2024
From the New Life Live! archives, this Flashback show originally aired on Memorial Day, May 30, 2016. Topics: Intimacy, Fear, Negative Thoughts, Anxiety, Marijuana, Alcohol, Boundaries, Grief, Adult Children, DivorceHosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: 1. I am 65yo and have had no sex for 3yrs; what can I do to spark my wife’s interest? 2. How do I stop my fearful, irrational thoughts that consume me? 3. My 19yo son’s best friend died in a crash and he has turned to alcohol; should I kick him out? 4. How do I help my 39yo daughter have a life after she sacrificed to help me during my divorce? Suggested Resources:How We LoveYou Are What You ThinkTake Your Life BackLife Recovery Bible12 Laws of Life Recovery
May 27, 2024
Topics: Divorce, Remarriage, Grief, Friendship, Connection, IsolationHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares a real life example of how to apply 2 Thessalonians 3:10. 2. I am a Muslim and believe that if someone’s spouse is still alive, they are still married to them; what does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage? 3. I lost my husband 6mos ago and find myself being very needy; is this a sign of needing more healing, or am I too vulnerable to be friends with men? 4. How can I be connected to the world but not be overwhelmed by it? I have felt disconnected since COVID. Suggested Resources:Life Recovery BibleHealing Is a ChoiceHow We Love
May 24, 2024
Topics: Fear, Abandonment, Gender Identity, Enabling, Alcohol, Adult Children, BetrayalHosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams, recorded on the New Life Danube River Cruise Caller Questions & More: 1. Chris Williams shares one practical way to work around fear. 2. My wife’s abandonment issues trigger my past failures; how can we communicate better? 3. Our 7yo grandson wears a dress; how do we deal with gender identity issues? 4. How do we balance support vs. financially enabling our adult daughter who is a recovering alcoholic? 5. I have felt betrayed by family members in the past and now I’m having nightmares; what can I do? Suggested Resources:100 Days To Freedom from Fear and AnxietyHow We LoveDoing Life with Your Adult ChildrenHow You Think…Determines the Course of Your Life
May 23, 2024
Topics: Perseverance, Christian Walk, Separation, Isolation, Dating, SiblingsHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares What To Do on a Tough Day. 2. The men’s Bible study I started was divided because the men argued over whether or not we stop sinning after we become Christians. 3. My wife just told me this morning that she’s leaving after 20yrs of conflict; what are some pitfalls of separation I need to be aware of? 4. How do I find purpose and meaning in life? I am divorced, no kids or grandkids, and I feel alone. 5. My 21yo daughter is dating her ex-boyfriend’s father and my older daughter is very upset; how can I help them reconnect? Suggested Resources:Every Man’s BibleHow We LoveTake Your Life Back
May 22, 2024
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Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

About New Life Live!

America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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