New Life Live: June 18, 2024
June 18, 2024
Topics: Habits, Anxiety, Christian Walk, Teens, Pornography, Aging Parents, Blended Families, Adult Children
Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Alice Benton shares how unfished tasks cause the Zeigarnik effect, and how that affects our brain.
2. I’m almost 50yo, don’t know why I serve God, and wonder if God even loves me.
3. What are some resources for my 16yo son who’s addicted to porn?
4. My 88yo mom is being scammed in a romance scam; how do I get to her?
5. My new wife said she’d take our whole family on a cruise except for my 31yo son and his girlfriend because she thinks he has ulterior motives.
Suggested Resources:
Take Your Life Back
Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen Saturated World
Every Young Man’s Battle
Living Strong, Finishing Well
How We Love
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Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.
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Topics: Screens, Parenting, Sexual Integrity, Singles, Pleasers, Physical Abuse, Dating, Intimacy, AngerHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Alice Benton shares a few tips on screen use by modeling parental behavior.
2. Should I think I might as well have sex even though I’m not married?
3. I’m a pleaser and I’ve been verbally and physically abused by my husband; how can I trust and lean into my husband when he says I am the reason for his name-calling?
4. What do I do if I’m 55yo, never married, and I don’t want to go to bars?
5. My wife and I are like roommates, and I got angry at her after I had surgery; where do I go from here?
Suggested Resources:How We LoveWorthy of Her Trust
June 17, 2024
Topics: Teens, Sexual Integrity, Adult Children, Alcohol, Intervention, Marijuana, ADDHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West
Caller Questions & More:
1. JJ West asks, “What does the soil of my life look like? Would I survive a dry season?”
2. My niece is asking what to do about her 14yo son who masturbates loudly.
3. My 53yo married son thinks because he doesn’t drink, he’s not affected by his father’s alcoholism. What can I do?
4. Am I out of bounds suggesting a family intervention to confront my brother-in-law and nephew about their drinking and marijuana?
5. How do I get my married adult son to get help for his undiagnosed ADD?
Suggested Resources:Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated WorldEvery Young Man’s BattleDoing Life with Your Adult ChildrenUnderstanding and Loving a Person with ADD
June 14, 2024
Topics: Suicide, Emotional Abuse, Isolation, Communication, Intimacy, CounselingHosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron
Caller Questions & More:
1. You partnered with God to pull Glen from death last week; I’ll find a way to support you!
2. Is there a connection between the trauma from my abusive marriage of 20yrs and me shunning people?
3. All my husband does is play sports and I feel like I’m his mom because all I do is clean his clothes.
4. What’s the difference between emotionally focused therapy vs. the Gottman method for married couples?
Suggested Resources:Healing Is a ChoiceHow We LoveWorthy of Her Trust
June 13, 2024
Topics: Caregiving, Betrayal, Fear, Failure, Drug Addiction, Grief, Life ChangeHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about the struggles of being a caregiver for a spouse or family member.
2. I went to Restore and am still struggling; how do I process this without looking at every guy as a pervert?
3. Why does trying to overcome the fear of people and failure bring about physical pain in my body?
4. How can I help my 20yo daughter and my husband who are still using drugs?
5. My husband had a brain injury and I was his caregiver until he passed 4yrs ago. Then I experienced a huge void from his loss.
Suggested Resources:Intimate Deception100 Days To Freedom from Fear and AnxietyTake Your Life Back100 Days of Prayer
June 12, 2024
Topics: Alcohol, Sex Addiction, Adult Children, Trust, Schizophrenia, Bipolar, Making Decisions, Aging Parents, SuicideHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares insights from Dr. Dave Stoop.
2. I’m a functioning alcoholic and a sexual addict, and I’m starting a Celebrate Recovery 12-step group. What other resources can help?
3. My adult son has been accused by his ex-wife of abusing their kids, and he could end up in jail for 10yrs. How do we help him trust people again?
4. I was diagnosed with schizoaffective and bipolar disorders. Is it realistic for me to get a commercial driver’s license so I can drive a truck? Where do I go from here?
5. My elderly mom has terminal cancer, lives alone, and has requested End of Life euthanasia; is it biblical for her to take her own life?
Suggested Resources:Life Recovery WorkbookHealing Is a ChoiceTake Your Life BackLiving Strong, Finishing Well
June 11, 2024
Topics: Social Media, Parenting, Church Life, Betrayal, Father Issues, Grief, Same-Sex AttractionHosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions:
1. Dr. Alice Benton asks, “Do we allow our children enough physical freedom and too much digital freedom?”
2. Is it wrong to leave my church and go to another church that feels more comfortable?
3. Why did I marry two men who betrayed me even though I loved them deeply and thought they would be loving? My father was abusive and neglectful.
4. My friend’s 21yo son died from blood cancer and now my friend is going onto social media and saying mean things about his son’s ex-girlfriend.
5. Are gay pride events supporting people who are exercising their right to be rebellious? I have good friends in the lifestyle.
Suggested Resources:Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated WorldIntimate DeceptionLife Recovery Workbook for GriefEvery Believer’s Thought Life
June 10, 2024
Topics: Suicide, Hope, Emotional Affairs, Adult Children, Boundaries, Estrangement, Blended FamiliesHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Alice Benton
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Sheri Keffer reflected on the powerful suicidal call on June 5.
2. My husband had an emotional affair but doesn’t seem to be getting any better; what caused my husband to sneak around with a woman for 10yrs?
3. My daughter lives with me and has brought a 45yo man to squat in my house; what should I do? My granddaughter also lives here.
4. I’ve been married 40yrs, and my husband hasn’t talked to my son for years; should I reach out to my son and ask him to make amends?
5. I wanted to thank New Life for the Emotional Freedom Intensive last weekend.
Suggested Resources:Intimate DeceptionTake Your Life BackHow We LoveHealing Is a Choice
June 7, 2024
Topics: Neighbors, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Affairs, Verbal Abuse, Newlyweds, AnxietyHosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about Loving Your Neighbor as Yourself.
2. I stopped using drugs 28yrs ago but still struggle with feeling unworthy.
3. My son is a recovering addict and has left his wife and children to be with a woman who is an addict; how do I deal with this woman?
4. I struggle with loving and respecting my husband who is verbally abusive.
5. I’ve been married 2mos to a man in recovery 5mos, but I have a lot of anxiety over his tobacco and caffeine habits; how do I navigate my marriage?
Suggested Resources:Forgiving What You’ll Never ForgetBoundariesWorthy of Her TrustHow We Love
June 6, 2024
Topics: Habits, Caregiving, Making Decisions, Self Worth, Dating, Friendship, Depression, SuicideHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Sheri Keffer
Caller Questions:
1. Dr. Alice Benton shares What To Do To Change a Habit.
2. After caregiving for my mom until she passed, how do I determine where I want to live?
3. Why do I keep attracting unsafe people if I’m a safe person? Why do opposites attract?
4. I’ve set up an appointment to be euthanized because I can’t handle life and don’t know how to tell my 29yo daughter or fiancée.
Suggested Resources:Emotional Freedom WorkbookChanges That HealTake Your Life Back
June 5, 2024
Topics: Christian Walk, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Narcissists, Sexual IntegrityHosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West
Caller Questions & More:
1. JJ West shares about One-Anothering vs. Othering.
2. How do I get my husband out of bed? When I try to get him to do something, he argues and then goes back to sleep.
3. How do I heal my relationship with my adult adopted daughter? She cut off communication when I tried to reconcile.
4. I’ve been married 27yrs to a narcissist and found texts from another woman.
5. I wanted to let your first caller know that I’ve been 20yrs clean from drugs and once I was off of methadone, I still had the urge to use. You have to keep working the program.
Suggested Resources:Life Recovery WorkbookDoing Life with Your Adult ChildrenIntimate DeceptionLife Recovery Bible
June 4, 2024
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Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.