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Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: June 12, 2024

June 12, 2024

Topics: CaregivingBetrayalFearFailureDrug AddictionGriefLife Change
Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams

Caller Questions & More:

1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about the struggles of being a caregiver for a spouse or family member.

2. I went to Restore and am still struggling; how do I process this without looking at every guy as a pervert?

3. Why does trying to overcome the fear of people and failure bring about physical pain in my body?

4. How can I help my 20yo daughter and my husband who are still using drugs?

5. My husband had a brain injury and I was his caregiver until he passed 4yrs ago. Then I experienced a huge void from his loss.

Suggested Resources:
Intimate Deception
100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety
Take Your Life Back
100 Days of Prayer

Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

Archives

Topics: Alcohol, Sex Addiction, Adult Children, Trust, Schizophrenia, Bipolar, Making Decisions, Aging Parents, SuicideHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares insights from Dr. Dave Stoop. 2. I’m a functioning alcoholic and a sexual addict, and I’m starting a Celebrate Recovery 12-step group. What other resources can help? 3. My adult son has been accused by his ex-wife of abusing their kids, and he could end up in jail for 10yrs. How do we help him trust people again? 4. I was diagnosed with schizoaffective and bipolar disorders. Is it realistic for me to get a commercial driver’s license so I can drive a truck? Where do I go from here? 5. My elderly mom has terminal cancer, lives alone, and has requested End of Life euthanasia; is it biblical for her to take her own life? Suggested Resources:Life Recovery WorkbookHealing Is a ChoiceTake Your Life BackLiving Strong, Finishing Well
June 11, 2024
Topics: Social Media, Parenting, Church Life, Betrayal, Father Issues, Grief, Same-Sex AttractionHosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton asks, “Do we allow our children enough physical freedom and too much digital freedom?” 2. Is it wrong to leave my church and go to another church that feels more comfortable? 3. Why did I marry two men who betrayed me even though I loved them deeply and thought they would be loving? My father was abusive and neglectful. 4. My friend’s 21yo son died from blood cancer and now my friend is going onto social media and saying mean things about his son’s ex-girlfriend. 5. Are gay pride events supporting people who are exercising their right to be rebellious? I have good friends in the lifestyle. Suggested Resources:Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated WorldIntimate DeceptionLife Recovery Workbook for GriefEvery Believer’s Thought Life
June 10, 2024
Topics: Suicide, Hope, Emotional Affairs, Adult Children, Boundaries, Estrangement, Blended FamiliesHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer reflected on the powerful suicidal call on June 5. 2. My husband had an emotional affair but doesn’t seem to be getting any better; what caused my husband to sneak around with a woman for 10yrs? 3. My daughter lives with me and has brought a 45yo man to squat in my house; what should I do? My granddaughter also lives here. 4. I’ve been married 40yrs, and my husband hasn’t talked to my son for years; should I reach out to my son and ask him to make amends? 5. I wanted to thank New Life for the Emotional Freedom Intensive last weekend. Suggested Resources:Intimate DeceptionTake Your Life BackHow We LoveHealing Is a Choice
June 7, 2024
Topics: Neighbors, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Affairs, Verbal Abuse, Newlyweds, AnxietyHosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about Loving Your Neighbor as Yourself. 2. I stopped using drugs 28yrs ago but still struggle with feeling unworthy. 3. My son is a recovering addict and has left his wife and children to be with a woman who is an addict; how do I deal with this woman? 4. I struggle with loving and respecting my husband who is verbally abusive. 5. I’ve been married 2mos to a man in recovery 5mos, but I have a lot of anxiety over his tobacco and caffeine habits; how do I navigate my marriage? Suggested Resources:Forgiving What You’ll Never ForgetBoundariesWorthy of Her TrustHow We Love
June 6, 2024
Topics: Habits, Caregiving, Making Decisions, Self Worth, Dating, Friendship, Depression, SuicideHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares What To Do To Change a Habit. 2. After caregiving for my mom until she passed, how do I determine where I want to live? 3. Why do I keep attracting unsafe people if I’m a safe person? Why do opposites attract? 4. I’ve set up an appointment to be euthanized because I can’t handle life and don’t know how to tell my 29yo daughter or fiancée. Suggested Resources:Emotional Freedom WorkbookChanges That HealTake Your Life Back
June 5, 2024
Topics: Christian Walk, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Narcissists, Sexual IntegrityHosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: 1. JJ West shares about One-Anothering vs. Othering. 2. How do I get my husband out of bed? When I try to get him to do something, he argues and then goes back to sleep. 3. How do I heal my relationship with my adult adopted daughter? She cut off communication when I tried to reconcile. 4. I’ve been married 27yrs to a narcissist and found texts from another woman. 5. I wanted to let your first caller know that I’ve been 20yrs clean from drugs and once I was off of methadone, I still had the urge to use. You have to keep working the program. Suggested Resources:Life Recovery WorkbookDoing Life with Your Adult ChildrenIntimate DeceptionLife Recovery Bible
June 4, 2024
Topics: Drug Addiction, Childhood Trauma, Abandonment, Christian Walk, Childhood Abuse, Finances, GuiltHosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares with parents How Drugs Are Different Today. 2. I had to be a caregiver to my mom when I was a child, and now I care for my sister who has schizophrenia; does someone’s childhood affect them their whole life? 3. I’m struggling with my community letting drag queens read to little children. 4. My 5yr relationship with a woman who has been abused since childhood ended; how can you help someone when their family says they deserved the abuse? 5. After inheriting money from my dad and not telling my husband who owes money for his taxes, what do I do about my guilt? Suggested Resources:Take Your Life BackForgiving Our Fathers and MothersEvery Woman’s BibleHow We Love
June 3, 2024
Topics: Brain Issues, Counseling, Childhood Trauma, Depression, Adult ChildrenHosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Sheri Keffer explains her Triune Council of the Brain Analogy (how triggers affect the brain). 2. My wife went to biblical counselors, but they never even asked about her past; what do you say to my wife or the counselors who have convinced her she’s okay? 3. How can I be more compassionate and supportive with my adult daughter who is depressed? I can’t grasp how or why she has gotten to this point. 4. What are your thoughts on the Internal Family Systems therapy model? It’s extremely popular. Suggested Resources:How We LoveTake Your Life BackUnderstanding and Loving a Person with Depression100 Days To Freedom from Depression
May 31, 2024
Topics: Adult Children, Parenting, Christian Walk, Affairs, Difficult Conversations, Same-Sex AttractionHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares What To Do When a Loved One Won’t Seek Help. 2. How can my husband and I present a united front if my daughter’s boyfriend will be moving in with her and we don’t agree? 3. Should I always submit and defer to my husband? Should I stop attending church because my husband has stopped? 4. My husband has been unfaithful several times in the 11yrs we’ve been married. 5. How can I lovingly talk to my granddaughter in college and help her realize that dating a woman is not right? Suggested Resources:Doing Life with Your Adult ChildrenHow We LoveSacred MarriageIntimate DeceptionEmbodied
May 30, 2024
Topics: Surrender, Codependency, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Physical AbuseHosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions & More: 1. Chris Williams and Dr. Sheri Keffer share about Resistance That Blocks Surrender. 2. How can I fix myself to be able to communicate with my daughter who is a single mom and only reaches out when she needs me? 3. I have a 22yo granddaughter who lives with us and has been in-and-out of rehab for fentanyl addiction; what do I do to help her? 4. I left a violent marriage of 3yrs, my third marriage; how can I not make the same mistake again? Suggested Resources:Take Your Life BackLife Recovery BibleHow We Love
May 29, 2024
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Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

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America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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