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Boundaries, Schizophrenia, and More Caller Questions from January 24, 2025

January 24, 2025
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Topics: Busyness, Separation, Adult Children, Boundaries, Pornography, Intimacy, Schizophrenia, Divorce
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jim Burns

Caller Questions & More:

1. Dr. Jim shares the dangers of living a phrenetic life and what the Bible says about it.

2. My 37yo son is separated from his wife who has Cushing’s Syndrome, and he told me to back off in reaching out to her; do I back off?

3. I asked my husband to go to a counselor for his anger and porn issues, but he won’t; how do I go about this if I don’t want to be intimate with him?

4. My son just got out of a treatment center and now he is in jail; how do I get power of attorney? He was diagnosed schizophrenic and won’t take his meds.

5. What can I do if the more boundaries I put up with my ex-husband, the more difficult it can become?

Suggested Resources:
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
Understanding and Loving a Person with Sexual Addiction
Boundaries

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