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Suicide, Emotional Affairs, and More Caller Questions from February 6, 2025

February 6, 2025
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Topics: Gaslighting, Suicide, Depression, Parent Issues, Retirement, Intimacy, Emotional Affairs
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris

Caller Questions & More:

1. Dr. Sheri shares a story from her first marriage that demonstrates gaslighting and blame shifting.

2. My 17yoson is struggling with suicidal ideation and wrote a note saying he doesn’t like hearing my husband and me arguing; what can we do?

3. My wife’s work is damaging her physically, but it has been hard for her to let go and retire; how can I help?

4. Although my husband is sober from porn, weed, and drinking, I don’t want to be intimate; can I get those feelings back?

5. How do I start my healing journey after I discovered my husband was exchanging sexually explicit texts with my friend?

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Intimate Deception
Worthy of His Trust

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