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Divorce, Separation, and More Caller Questions from February 20, 2025

February 20, 2025
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Topics: Divorce, Getting Unstuck, Separation, Verbal Abuse, Physical Abuse, Parenting, Blended Families, Teens, Forgiveness, Shame
Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions & More:

1. JJ discusses houses, like people, that look the same on the outside until the storm comes and you find out if they were built on firm foundation or sand.

2. After 44yrs of marriage, my wife served me divorce papers; how do I move on?

3. I separated from my abusive husband for 4yrs, and he wants to come back; should I trust him?

4. My husband is more of a friend than a father and needs to teach his 15yo son to be respectful to women.

5. How do I get over my past mistakes? I’ve been a terrible mom, wife, and friend.

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Past Episodes

Topics: Caregiving, Self-Care, Physical Abuse, Estrangement, Adult Children, Addictions, Vaping, Autism, ParentingHosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions & More: 1. Becky discusses compassion fatigue and how to prevent it when we take care of others. 2. What should I do if my daughter was physically abused by her children’s father but is now back with him and has disowned me? 3. I am helping my mom to care for her dad; how do we approach family members to assist us? 4. How do I stop vaping? 5. Is there a specific type of counselor to look for to help my 12yo autistic granddaughter? I have taken care of her since her sister died from medical neglect from their parents. Suggested Resources:Emotionally Destructive Relationship100 Days of PrayerLife Recovery DevotionalHow We Love Our Kids
February 19, 2025
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Topics: Dating, Priorities, Engagement, Sexual Addiction, Adult Children, Communication, Intimacy, AffairsHosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jill discusses the Eros type of love and the four don’ts of romantic love. 2. Now that we have a newborn, how do I prioritize my wife and my family’s business? 3. I went to Intimacy in Marriage with my fiancé and we were blown away! It feels like a new relationship. 4. My 28yo son has two kids and may get divorced because of his sexual addiction; what can I say to him that won’t end in an argument? 5. My husband claims he loves me yet there is not much physical proof; what can I do? Suggested Resources:How We LoveHow We Love Our KidsUnderstanding and Loving a Person with Sexual Addiction
February 18, 2025
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Topics: Anxiety, Negative Thoughts, Drug Addiction, Grief, Salvation, Dating, Emotional Abuse, Adult Children, Anger, Getting Unstuck, Alcohol, SuicideHosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jacqui shares about anxiety and how we need to find the good and focus on that. 2. My son died of a drug overdose, and his body wasn’t found for months; how do I deal with my guilt if he wasn’t saved? 3. I have been in a long-distance relationship for 3mos, but my excitement has waned; what should I expect at this point in this relationship? 4. How much more can I take of my husband being stuck in the past and constantly throwing it in my face? He is in a psychiatric hospital for PTSD and chronic insomnia. 5. My brother died, and his 40yo son is struggling with drugs and mental illness; what can I do to help? 6. How do I get unstuck instead of angry? My alcoholic brother committed suicide last year, and I was angry with his partner’s behavior at the funeral. Suggested Resources:Life Recovery Workbook for GriefHow We LoveDoing Life with Your Adult Children100 Days To Freedom from Anger
February 17, 2025
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Topics: Love, Divorce, Drug Addiction, Custody, Intimacy, Forgiveness, Regret, HealthHosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jill talks about the fours types of love and how to redeem Valentine’s Day. 2. Should I reach out and apologize to my ex-husband? I have been sober for 2yrs and haven’t seen my daughter for 5yrs. 3. Why do I not feel any sexual intimacy towards my husband? I have not felt like having sex since my 16yo son was born. 4. How do I forgive myself for hitting and swearing at my aunt? She raised me and passed away 20yrs ago. 5. My husband just had open heart surgery and goes out partying on the weekends; how do I guide him better? Suggested Resources:Healing Is a ChoiceHow We LoveChanges That HealTake Your Life Back
February 14, 2025
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Topics: Contentment, Fear, Anxiety, Depression, Triggers, Christian Walk, Pleasers, Avoiders, IntimacyHosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: 1. Chris discusses fighting for contentment and how rage-baiting pulls us into discontentment and fear. 2. What should I do if I was injured from a fall and am struggling with anxiety and depression? 3. I have multiple injuries from several accidents, and your talk on triggers the other day intrigued me. 4. Should we need anyone or only need God? 5. Any advice as I prepare for back surgery? I am in a lot of pain and anxious about surgery. 6. Is it possible to be a pleaser who avoids? My husband and I are older and haven’t had sex in 16yrs. Suggested Resources:Take Your Life BackEvery Believer’s Thought LifeHow You Think Determines the Course of Your Life
February 13, 2025
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Topics: Parenting, Counseling, Siblings, Estrangement, Guilt, Affairs, Divorce, Christian WalkHosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Alice encourages parents to model humility and confession with their kids as an underutilized parenting power tool. 2. How can I tell if a counselor is psychologically and mentally healthy? I had a weird experience with a counselor. 3. We found our older brother after 55yrs, and he is blind and has Parkinson’s; should I get into counseling to cope with it? 4. I committed adultery and divorced my first husband, and now I feel guilty after marrying again. Will this stop God from listening to my prayer to heal my son? Suggested Resources:Changes That HealLife Recovery Workbook for GriefLiving Strong, Finishing WellHow We Love
February 12, 2025
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Topics: Forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Grief, Divorce, Dating, Teens, MarijuanaHosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: 1. Becky shares about getting stuck in unforgiveness. 2. How can I deal with family members who dismiss my grief after losing my husband four years ago to COVID? 3. I’m twice divorced and would like to start dating again; should I go on a Christian dating site? 4. My 15yo rebellious son vapes and does marijuana; what should I do? Suggested Resources:Life Recovery Workbook for GriefHealing Is a ChoiceUnderstanding and Loving Your Child Who Smokes Pot
February 11, 2025
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Topics: Negative Patterns, Autism, Triggers, Weight Issues, Grief, Insomnia, Estrangement, Adult Children, Salvation, FinancesHosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: 1. Marc encourages us to do an autopsy on our last relationship so we don’t misdiagnose what went wrong. 2. My autistic son and husband trigger each other; what do I do? The police were called when I wasn’t there. 3. I’ve recently lost my mother and recognize that I turn to food for comfort; any books that I can read to stop overeating? 4. Are there any resources for me in my struggle with chronic insomnia? It affects my quality of life and family. 5. How do I deal with my estranged daughter and my son who no longer believes in God? 6. I went back to school to study reflexology after being the breadwinner, but my husband wants me to return to work. Suggested Resources:How We LoveLose It for LifeHow You Think Determines the Course of Your LifeIntimate Deception
February 10, 2025
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Topics: Stress, Negative Thoughts, Getting Unstuck, Adult Children, Divorce, Work IssuesHosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Becky Brown Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Jacqui discusses vicarious stress from negative news and social media, and what to do instead of doomscrolling. 2. How do I get over my soulmate abusing me and moving on? I don’t know how to stop missing and loving my ex. 3. My son is in an open marriage, and I don’t understand. 4. I divorced my husband 3yrs ago after I discovered he had been hooking up with men, but I still don’t know how to move on. 5. I have been working at a job for one year that recently was bought out and the atmosphere changed; should I look for another job? Suggested Resources:Every Believer’s Thought LifeDoing Life with Your Adult ChildrenHealing Is a ChoiceChanges that Heal
February 7, 2025
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Topics: Gaslighting, Suicide, Depression, Parent Issues, Retirement, Intimacy, Emotional AffairsHosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Sheri shares a story from her first marriage that demonstrates gaslighting and blame shifting. 2. My 17yoson is struggling with suicidal ideation and wrote a note saying he doesn’t like hearing my husband and me arguing; what can we do? 3. My wife’s work is damaging her physically, but it has been hard for her to let go and retire; how can I help? 4. Although my husband is sober from porn, weed, and drinking, I don’t want to be intimate; can I get those feelings back? 5. How do I start my healing journey after I discovered my husband was exchanging sexually explicit texts with my friend? Suggested Resources:How We LoveIntimate DeceptionWorthy of His Trust
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