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Counseling, Affairs, and More Caller Questions from February 12, 2025

February 12, 2025
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Topics: Parenting, Counseling, Siblings, Estrangement, Guilt, Affairs, Divorce, Christian Walk
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris

Caller Questions & More:

1. Dr. Alice encourages parents to model humility and confession with their kids as an underutilized parenting power tool.

2. How can I tell if a counselor is psychologically and mentally healthy? I had a weird experience with a counselor.

3. We found our older brother after 55yrs, and he is blind and has Parkinson’s; should I get into counseling to cope with it?

4. I committed adultery and divorced my first husband, and now I feel guilty after marrying again. Will this stop God from listening to my prayer to heal my son?

Suggested Resources:
Changes That Heal
Life Recovery Workbook for Grief
Living Strong, Finishing Well
How We Love

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