New Life Live!

Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: August 8, 2023

August 8, 2023

Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Jill HubbardDr. Jim Burns

Caller Questions:

- How do I help my husband handle his sister who has moved to our town and used to be his brother?

- My young adult sons blocked me after my ex-husband turned them against me; how do I reach out?

- What can I do after my 16yo daughter told me she is non-binary? She has two girlfriends who now want to become boys.

- My adult daughter had gender reassignment and says I must use he and him pronouns, but I feel like I’m betraying God if I do. 

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Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

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Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - Do you know of a program to help my teen daughter who has social anxiety and uses drugs? - I am low income. What can I do if my 32yo son has a nude bobblehead on his car’s dashboard and says there’s nothing wrong with it? - Whenever my husband approaches me for sex, I start thinking of the kids who are being sex trafficked; how do I get past this? - I wanted to make a comment to the mother whose adult son has a nude bobblehead.
August 7, 2023
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - How do we deal with our 31yo son who says he is bisexual? He lives with us, and this is tearing my wife and I apart. - I grew up in an alcoholic and physically abusive home. I used strict discipline with my kids; how do I communicate with my son to find out how he felt growing up with me?
August 4, 2023
Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: - Is it selfish of me to want my 33yo wife to lose weight? How do I approach her? - Is my 17yo grandson just a teen who is disorganized, or does he have something like ADHD? - How do I respond to a friend who booked a cruise for us even though I don’t want to go because I just had knee surgery? - My wife separated and seems stuck in yesterday; what can I do?
August 3, 2023
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Becky Brown Caller Questions: - I’m 13yo and am attracted to my rehabilitation therapists.  - How can I forgive myself for not helping a family member that asked me for help?  - Is my 9yo daughter being groomed for sexual abuse by my husband? He told her he would do something to her if she used his phone.  - If my porn-addicted husband isn’t willing to do any work, is it reasonable for me to ask him to move out? - What do you think about black folks needing trauma counseling because of the historical problem of slavery?
August 2, 2023
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: - Should I continue to reach out to my Muslim sister or love her at a distance? - What’s the best way to help my bipolar son who is married with kids and traumatizes them by yelling and breaking things? - How do I find professional help for my 43yo son after he punched a hole in the wall and slit his wrists? - My family members are upset I didn’t help with my mom or go to her funeral. How do I get over being estranged from them? 
August 1, 2023
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: - What is the best way to deal with the pain of rejection? I have had abandonment and abuse in relationships. - I’m raising my grandkids, and my 14yo granddaughter is upset I am setting boundaries with the cell phone that her mother bought her. - I went through divorce, had a nervous breakdown, and no one wants to be around me; how do I reconnect and have conversations with my family? - What do I say to my adult kids after treating them with anger just like my mom did with me?
July 31, 2023
Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: - What can I do after my 23yo son cut off communication with me? I wouldn’t cosign on an apartment with him because the landlord was crooked. - What boundaries should I put in place with my 23yo porn-addicted son if I pay for his phone and internet? - My 8yo granddaughter has access to a cell phone but didn’t follow the rules; what should I do instead of avoiding her? - I’m a 43yo autistic mom and sensory-overloaded; how can I keep my boundaries with my husband when he crosses them? 
July 28, 2023
Hosts: Becky Brown, Marc Cameron, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: - I just joined Club New Life because of how you’ve helped me see I needed counseling; I am working to overcome people pleasing due to my rigid parents. - What are your thoughts on God healing through medicine? - How am I going to survive my 44yo son dying from cancer? - My adult son calls me several times during the day. He is autistic and has his own apartment; how do I not enable him? - How do I deal with having no childhood memories of my mom hugging or comforting me? How does that affect me today with my relationships? 
July 27, 2023
Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions: - What help can I get my 15yo son who asked my 5yo niece to touch him inappropriately? - Do I spend too much time on my phone? It bothers my wife because I had an emotional affair online a few years ago. - My 32yo son is married and transitioning to being a woman; what do I tell my grandchildren? Are there support groups for family members? - What are some steps we can take to reconcile? We are separated and have both been married three times. 
July 26, 2023
Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: - Is it biblical for me to think of myself as a healer? Will that get me stuck healing other people and not finding healing for myself? - My 22yo daughter and I are witnesses in a legal battle and have been targeted. How do we find the strength to continue despite significant financial loss and fear? - How do I write out boundaries for my marriage? My husband has met women online and had affairs. - What can a person do if they have a phobia of people vomiting on them? I’ve been told I have emetophobia. 
July 25, 2023
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Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

About New Life Live!

America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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