New Life Live!

Steve Arterburn

New Life Live: August 2, 2024

August 2, 2024

Topics: AffairsForgivenessDifficult ConversationsAdult ChildrenPhysical AbuseSelf Worth
Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West

Caller Questions & More:

1. JJ West shares about uncharitable thoughts and not giving others the benefit of the doubt.

2. My husband confessed to multiple affairs and keeps putting himself down; how can I convince him that I forgive him and that sin is sin?

3. It’s been 3yrs since a heated conversation with a family member, and now she tells me if I don’t apologize, she doesn’t have any use for me.

4. How do I reconcile with my 49yo daughter who canceled me after a counselor told her to?

5. My ex-husband tried to murder me twice and his behavior is trickling down to my kids!

6. How do I move forward in a one-sided relationship so I don’t get hurt?

7. I called in a few years ago when I was in a crisis and wanted to thank you for the advice you gave me!

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
How We Love
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
Take Your Life Back
Boundaries

Featured Offer

Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

Archives

Topics: Christian Walk, Childhood Trauma, Father Issues, Bipolar, In-laws, Mother Issues, Anger, ForgivenessHosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard asks us to look back at our answered prayers. 2. I have felt unheard and invalidated my whole life because of my abusive dad. 3. How can I handle and help my girlfriend who has bipolar disorder? It has been a struggle for us both. 4. Am I doing the right thing in ignoring my sister-in-law when she preaches at me? She backs me into a corner and tells me what a heathen I am. 5. How do I get over the pain of my mom getting angry because I chose not to get vaccinated and remained a conservative voter? Suggested Resources:Forgiving Our Fathers and MothersUnderstanding and Loving a Person with Bipolar DisorderTake Your Life Back
August 1, 2024
Topics: Purpose, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Dating, Divorce, Grief, ConnectionHosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris discusses whatever we do, do in the name of the Lord, and we will be living in our purpose. 2. My son and his wife don’t want me to say anything about Christianity to my young grandchildren; how do I respond? 3. I’ve been single for 17yrs and recently broke off a relationship because I am concerned about being someone’s emotional pillow. 4. Is there any way for me to get connected to the callers? I have listened for years and have some of the same issues as they do. 5. What advice can you give me for my daughter? Her older children are against her, her ex-husband is abusive, and he has custody of her younger ones. 6. Six years ago I lost my wife of 50yrs and can’t replace her; now that I am a hermit, I am losing connection with people. What can I do? Suggested Resources:Doing Life with Your Adult ChildrenHow We LoveTake Your Life BackSoul of a Hero
July 31, 2024
Topics: Sexual Addiction, Living Together, Lying, Pornography, Affairs, Insomnia, Negative ThoughtsHosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about crazy-making conversations and wound of judgment triggers. 2. Can you give me tips and tricks on how to stay in sobriety for sexual addiction? I go to therapy and a men’s group but I still struggle. 3. I’ve been in a toxic relationship for 8yrs with a man who lies and hides from me; how can I get out of it? 4. I think my husband of 35yrs cheated on me; is seeking an attorney the right route for me to take? 5. Did working a double shift for several months cause my chronic insomnia and anxiety? Suggested Resources:Worthy of Her TrustBoundariesChanges That Heal
July 30, 2024
Topics: Depression, Sexual Addiction, Scams, Betrayal, Intimacy, Adoption, Alcohol, AffairsHosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: 1. Dr. Alice Benton explains why the foods we eat affect our mood. 2. How should I deal with my husband of 43yrs contacting women online? He has given lots of money to a woman from Ghana. 3. I’ve been married for 17yrs and have no feelings for my husband; how do I love him after I found women’s underwear on him years ago? 4. My friend’s biological 16yo daughter is being abused by her adopted family and says she’s going to kill herself if she’s forced to go back. 5. I’ve been in the hospital four times for drinking and my husband is with a younger woman now; how can I get him back? Suggested Resources:Take Your Life BackIntimate DeceptionHow We Love Our KidsEvery Believer’s Thought Life
July 29, 2024
Topics: Feelings, Divorce, Finances, Single Parenting, Adult Children, Video Games, AffairsHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Alice Benton shares the importance of emotional regulation. 2. My heart went out to a previous caller, and I wanted to share creative ways that kept our family going after I divorced my abusive husband to protect my kids from him. 3. Our son is graduating college but will still live with us; how do we set boundaries with him when he spends a lot of time gaming? 4. I’ve been married 18yrs, my wife has developed a relationship with a neighbor, and she told me she is done with me. Suggested Resources:Why I BelieveUnderstanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen-Saturated WorldIntimate Deception
July 26, 2024
Topics: Estrangement, Drug Addiction, Boundaries, Infertility, Grief, Adult Children, Affairs, SecretsHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about the silent epidemic of parent and family estrangement. 2. Is my response to my drug-addicted sister wrong? I told her not to call me unless she calls me from a treatment center. 3. I’ve been trying to get pregnant for 16yrs. How can I cope after my doctor told me 2wks ago that I will never get pregnant? 4. I’ve been estranged from my adult daughters for over 20yrs after my nasty divorce. 5. Should we let our son know that his wife was having an affair? We have been estranged from our son for 6yrs because of her. Suggested Resources:Life Recovery BibleLife Recovery WorkbookLife Recovery Workbook for GriefDoing Life with Your Adult Children
July 25, 2024
Topics: Depression, Adult Children, Addiction, Boundaries, In-laws, Sexual Abuse, Parenting, GriefHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares different types of depression. 2. I’m in addiction recovery and battle with depression; now that I’m pregnant with twins, do any foods enhance your mood? 3. I just want my adult daughter who is struggling with addiction and health issues out of my house; what do I do? 4. Your show helped me to resolve a conflict with my father-in-law! 5. My 11yo son told me last December he had been sexually abused by his father and grandfather; how can I function in life when I have a breakdown every day? Suggested Resources:Life Recovery BibleTake Your Life BackEmotional Freedom Workbook
July 24, 2024
Topics: Thankful, Feelings, Getting Unstuck, Affairs, Trust, PTSD, Living TogetherHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: 1. Dr. Jim Burns shares how to do thank therapy by giving thanks in everything. 2. I was molested as a child, my marriage ended in divorce, and I feel shut down; how do I kickstart my emotional life? 3. I’m 62yo, have PTSD from abuse, and can’t trust anyone; how do I reverse that? 4. Should I stay or go from the woman I’m living with? I pay half of her mortgage and raise her kids. Suggested Resources:Changes That HealTrustLife Recovery BibleLife Recovery Workbook
July 23, 2024
Topics: Brain Issues, Drug Addiction, Siblings, Childhood Trauma, Adult Children, Same-Sex Attraction, ForgivenessHosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: 1. Becky Brown shares the four happiness chemicals: dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin and endorphins. 2. What is the best way to support my brother who is recovering from a brain injury and heroin addiction? 3. What is causing my relative to have seizures? He was molested as a child and is using alcohol and vaping to cope. 4. I was abusive to my five kids in the past and my daughter is gay; how do I love them through Jesus Christ and what does that look like? Suggested Resources:Life Recovery JourneyTake Your Life BackForgiving Our Fathers and Mothers
July 22, 2024
Topics: Self-Awareness, Getting Unstuck, Connection, Feelings, Betrayal, Finances, Anger, Grief, Weight Issues, DepressionHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald Caller Questions & More: 1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares the life-changing importance of naming our negative core patterns. 2. I feel stuck in my sixties after my divorce 12yrs ago; how do I get motivated? 3. How can I better understand the importance of my wife’s emotions when I have a lack of emotions? 4. I recently lost my abusive husband and found out he had canceled his life insurance and built up massive credit card debt. 5. My son’s wife died 2yrs ago and his stepsons were taken from him. He is distraught; how can we help? Suggested Resources:Healing Is a ChoiceTrustHow We LoveLife Recovery Workbook for Grief
July 19, 2024
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Every Believer's Thought Life
Jesus made it clear that while sexual integrity is expressed through the body, it’s rooted in the mind. But aligning our thoughts with God’s thoughts isn’t always easy. Illicit sexual thoughts don’t need to have free rein in your mind. The Bible provides an arsenal of weapons to win the battle. Jesus invites you to live with full sexual integrity—in your behavior, heart, and mind. Instead of succumbing to the despair and darkness of sin, you can take every thought captive and replace it with thoughts that align with God’s truth, allowing Him to bring about His best for your life.

About New Life Live!

America’s #1 Christian Counseling Call-In Radio Program. Since 1985 New Life Live! has been broadcast as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective.

About Steve Arterburn

Steve Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and host of the #1 nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show “New Life Live!” heard and by 2 million people each weekday on 200 radio stations nationwide and on Sirius/XM radio. Steve is the Teaching Pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, Indiana. Steve is also the founder of Women of Faith conferences attended by over 5,000,000 people.

As a nationally and internationally known public speaker, Steve has been featured in national media venues such as Oprah, Inside Edition, Good Morning America, CNN Live, The New York Times, USA Today, US News & World Report, ABC World News Tonight, along with GQ magazine and Rolling Stone magazine. Steve has spoken at major events for National Center for Fathering, American Association of Christian Counselors, Promise Keepers, Life Well Conferences in Australia and The Salvation Army, to name a few, and is an inductee to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.

Steve is a best-selling author of books such as Every Man’s BattleHealing Is A Choice, Toxic FaithWalking Into Walls and Kirby McCook and the Jesus Chronicles. He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and won five Gold Medallions for writing excellence. Along with Dr. Dave Stoop, he edited and produced the award winning Life Recovery Bible which is on exhibit at The Museum of the Bible in Washington, D.C.

His speaking topics address issues common to leaders and adult men and women, including Take Your Life Back, Every Man's Battle, Lose it For Life, The 7-Minute Marriage Solution, Every Heart Restored, Healing is a Choice and Pro-Life. Steve’s ministry endeavors focus on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and The University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees including one from The California Graduate School of Theology. Steve resides with his family in Carmel, Indiana.

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