Divorce, Grief, and More Caller Questions from October 3, 2024
October 3, 2024
Topics: Christian Walk, Divorce, Grief, Siblings, Anger, Grandparenting
Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Jim shares the pain of discipline vs. the pain of regret during our tougher times.
2. Is there redemption and hope if I’ve committed the unpardonable sin? I lashed out in anger and called the Holy Spirit by the name of Satan.
3. Since calling you a few weeks ago, my wife has unfortunately filed for a divorce.
4. Do you have any insight for me? After my 41yo son died, my brother wrote a horrible letter to us that said we let our son die.
5. My grandson always makes his wife or in-laws a priority; what can I do?
Suggested Resources:
Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers
Life Recovery Bible
Life Recovery Workbook for Grief
Trust
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Topics: Sexual Addiction, Divorce, Mother Issues, Affairs, Betrayal, GriefHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald
Caller Questions & More:
1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares about the big gap between what we desire and where we are.
2. My husband has a sex addiction and wants a divorce; is it a good thing for me to try to stay with him?
3. How do I deal with my mom resenting me and never being able to please her? She just had a stroke, and she’s very ugly to me.
4. For two-thirds of my life my husband sexually betrayed me; what is the best way to navigate my grief in this season?
Suggested Resources:Intimate DeceptionMaking Peace with Your FatherWorthy of Her Trust
October 2, 2024
Topics: Sexual Integrity, Parenting, Intimacy, Adult Children, Dating, EstrangementHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Jim Burns shares about his new book, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity.
2. My wife thinks I’ve rejected her because we haven’t consummated our 4yr marriage due to me having prostate cancer; what do I do?
3. Our 19yo daughter is dating a 43yo and we’re concerned; are there any red flags to look for?
4. How do we go about reconciling with estranged family members over our decision to sell our vacation home? Our grandkids won’t speak to us.
Suggested Resources:How We LoveDoing Life with Your Adult Children
October 1, 2024
Topics: Attitude, Fear, Medication, Narcissists, Sexual Integrity, Emotional Affairs, Nightmares, TraumaHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron
Caller Questions & More:
1. Marc Cameron discusses the importance of attitude and Holocaust survivors.
2. I’m 62yo and in fear all the time. I’m scared of the side effects of Prozac; can I get off it eventually?
3. In your Intimacy in Marriage Weekend, have you ever had success with narcissistic spouses?
4. Do I stay with my husband after finding messages from other women on his phone? He won’t end it with them.
5. How do I stop having nightmares about traumatic events in my past? I wake up crying.
Suggested Resources:Changes That HealHow We LoveWorthy of Her TrustHealing Is a Choice
September 30, 2024
Topics: Christian Walk, Boundaries, Teens, Alcohol, Finances, Elder AbuseHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Dr. Sheri Keffer
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Jacqui discusses the burdens we carry and taking them to the Lord.
2. When my ex-husband wanted me to bail him out of jail, I turned him down. How should I treat him now?
3. My soon-to-be 18yo daughter has always been challenging to me, and she has narcissistic tendencies.
4. My 30yo nephew is struggling with alcohol; he was sober for 3mos but has recently relapsed.
5. I found out that a couple I know charged thousands on my credit card after I gave them the card for their doctor copays. In the Bible it says Christians are not to go to court, so what do I do?
Suggested Resources:Life Recovery Workbook for GriefHow We Love Our KidsLife Recovery BibleTrust
September 27, 2024
Topics: Bipolar, Parenting, Identity, Adult Children, Sexual Integrity, Difficult Conversations, Healing Journey, Parenting, AgingHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Jill discusses how to recognize symptoms of bipolar disorder.
2. What do you think about my 11yo granddaughter wanting to identify as an animal? She wants to belong to a group at school who identify as therians.
3. My 48yo single son spends 25hrs over a weekend playing pool at a strip club; should I talk to him about it or just pray?
4. My life was a hot mess. New Life gave me so many tools and decision-making advice that I can now pass on to my kids to give them what I never got from my parents. Thank you!
5. A 90yo attendee at the Emotional Freedom Intensive taught us that it is never too late and don’t think you have ever arrived!
Suggested Resources:How We Love Our KidsTake Your Life BackEmotional Freedom Workbook
September 26, 2024
Topics: Reactions, Comparisons, Childhood Trauma, Passive-Aggressive, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Siblings, Verbal Abuse, GriefHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Laura Mangin-McDonald
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares her parable on how a pot of boiling water can describe what’s happening in a relationship.
2. There are so many comparisons for couples out there on social media; how can we have healthy conversations with our spouse and not hurtful?
3. My husband can’t follow through on things he agreed to do; should he be digging deeper into a childhood trauma?
4. Thank you for the advice you gave my husband and I to practice tough love with my heroin-addicted daughter who is now sober!
5. My siblings have been distant until one brother died. Any advice after I blew up at my sister and brother for pressing me about our brother’s estate?
Suggested Resources:How We LoveDoing Life with Your Adult ChildrenLife Recovery JourneyLife Recovery Workbook for Grief
September 25, 2024
Topics: Sexual Integrity, Parenting, Affairs, Sexual Addiction, Depression, Polyamorous, Adult ChildrenHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Jim Burns is interviewed about his new book, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity.
2. My husband has had affairs, and I recently walked in on him doing something inappropriate; is he a sex addict?
3. What are your thoughts on anhedonia and nihilism? I think I have these because I have been struggling with depression and was at a very low point.
4. My stepdaughter is in a polyamorous marriage and has kids; how do my husband and I navigate this?
Suggested Resources:Intimate DeceptionWorthy of Her TrustEmotional Freedom WorkbookDoing Life with Your Adult Children
September 24, 2024
Topics: Anxiety, Depression, Gambling, Sexual Addiction, Friendship, ReconnectionHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron
Caller Questions:
1. Dr. Alice Benton shares what can help decrease anxiety and depression is to experience awe, especially in nature.
2. What direction can I go if my husband has a gambling problem and goes to massage parlors?
3. Do I leave my husband of 40yrs who has a sex addiction and thinks he can handle it on his own?
4. My friend says he’s afraid of developing feelings for me and doesn’t have to repair the relationship since we’re not married.
Suggested Resources:Intimate DeceptionTrustTake Your Life Back
September 23, 2024
Topics: Loneliness, Separation, Intimacy, Blended Families, Adult Children, Resentment, Estrangement, ControllersHosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron
Caller Questions & More:
1. Dr. Jill Hubbard shares the surprising results of new loneliness research.
2. My wife separated because I created fake accounts online and introduced sexual fantasies into the marriage; she wants me to meet with her and her dad today.
3. My 32yo daughter had a stroke, was diagnosed with schizophrenia, and moved in with us for 2yrs. How do I deal with the anger and resentment that I feel toward my husband? I felt like he was making me choose between her and him.
4. Why can’t I do something about my daughter-in-law not letting us see the grandkids for years?
5. Should I be concerned that my 34yo gay son is no longer working after moving in with a controlling man?
Suggested Resources:Worthy of Her TrustHow We LoveLife Recovery Workbook for GriefTrust
September 20, 2024
Topics: Trust, Drug Addiction, Adult Children, Bipolar, Father Issues, Intimacy, Grief, Blended FamiliesHosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, and presenter at Restore and Intimacy in Marriage intensives, Laura Mangin-McDonald
Caller Questions & More:
1. Laura Mangin-McDonald shares how love is free, but trust is earned.
2. How do I navigate my 31yo son’s drug abuse and mental health struggles? Is it right for him to go on an amphetamine like Adderall?
3. How can my daughter honor her bipolar father when he continues to be hurtful?
4. My husband is my best friend, but I am not in love with him.
5. Would there be a benefit for my husband of 3yrs to grieve the loss of the childhood he thinks his kids should’ve had? They lost their mother to brain cancer.
Suggested Resources:TrustLife Recovery JourneyForgiving Our Fathers and MothersHow We Love
September 19, 2024
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