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Betrayal, Pornography, and More Caller Questions from April 8, 2025

April 8, 2025
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Topics: Betrayal, Full Disclosure, Trust, Pornography, Narcissists, Affairs, Grief
Hosts: Becky Brown, Stacey Sadler Smith, Laura Mangin-McDonald

Caller Questions & More:

1. Stacey and Laura discuss what is going on in the world of healing from betrayal, and how it relates to the betrayal of Jesus.

2. How will Every Man’s Battle help my husband with full disclosure? Will Restore help me to trust him?

3. In counseling, what order do you work on immediate sexual betrayal, childhood trauma, and character deflects?

4. I feel like I married the wrong person 36yrs ago. Since my narcissistic husband can’t deal with it, I feel like I’m betraying him.

5. After my husband died 3yrs ago, I found out he cheated on me with a good friend.

6. What do I do after my 2nd husband has become emotionally draining no matter how hard I try?

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People Fuel
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