Dave & Ann's Conflict Cycle: Debra Fileta
November 27, 2024
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Is conflict always bad? Dave and Ann Wilson discuss their marriage conflict cycle and underlying issues as guests on Debra Fileta's podcast, "Talk To Me."
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- A Biblical Approach to Early Childhood Discipline
- A Call to Courageous Manhood
- A Christ Centered Wedding
- A Closer Look at Adoption
- A Fierce Love
- A Grace Disguised
- A Grace Revealed
- A Guide to Biblical Manhood
- A Lasting Promise
- A Love Restored: Alberto and Debbie Rodriguez
- A Love Story
- A Loving Life
- A New Kind of Freedom
- A Panel Answers Your Questions
- A Positive Life
- A Praying Life
- A Second Love Story
- A Very Special Family
- A Walk in the Market
- A Way With Words
- A Wife's Secret to Happiness
- A Woman's Role
- A Woman's Wisdom
- Adopted for Life
- Adorning Your Home For Christmas
- Adult Children of Divorce
- After They Are Yours
- Aggressive Girls
- Al Mohler on Marriage
- All In
- All Pro Dad
- Amberly Neese: Jesus and Friendship
- Ambushed by Grace
- America: Turning A Nation to God
- An Unmerited Mercy
- An Untold Love Story
- Anchorman
- Answering Your Kids Toughest Questions
- Answering Your Questions About Parenting
- Applied Masculinity
- Approaching Adolescence: What Your Preteen Needs to Know
- Art of Parenting: What Every Parent Needs
- As Mom: Q & A with Barbara Rainey
- Ashamed No More
- Ashlee Gadd: Create Anyway
- Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome
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- Back to School Tips with Barbara
- Bad Dads of the Bible
- Barbara and Susan's Guide to the Empty Nest
- Barbara Rainey on Gratitude
- Be the Mom
- Beautiful Mess
- Beautiful Nate
- Beautiful Womanhood: A Biblical, Practical Guide for Wives
- Beauty by God's Design
- Becoming a Four Pillar Man
- Becoming a HomeBuilder
- Becoming a Spiritually Strong Family
- Becoming a True Woman While I Still Have a Curfew
- Becoming Mom Strong
- Before You Hit Send
- Before-You-Marry Questions
- Begin Again, Believe Again
- Behold the Lamb
- Beyond Bath Time
- Beyond Ordinary
- Bible Study in the 21st Century
- Big Truths for Young Hearts
- Birth to Five
- Blame It on the Brain
- Blended Family Ministry in the Church
- Bond of Brothers
- Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy
- Boys Should Be Boys
- Brave is the New Beautiful
- Breaking Free With Max
- Breathe
- Bringing the Gospel Home
- Building a Big House of Hope
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- Called to Adopt
- Caring for Carol
- Caring for Orphans
- Castaway Kid
- Celebrating Christ at Christmas
- Celebrating Recovery
- Chad & Emily Van Dixhoorn: Gospel-Shaped Marriage
- Choosing Gratitude
- Choosing to SEE
- Chris Singleton: Your Life Matters
- Christmas Q&A with Dennis and Barbara Rainey
- Cleaning House
- Close Kids: Connect Your Children for Life
- College Life 101
- College Ready
- Collin Outerbridge: Modern Romance
- Common Blessings, Familiar Miracles
- Compassion Without Compromise
- Confessions of a Boy Crazy Girl
- Co-Parenting Works
- Counter Culture
- Couples in the Bible
- Courageous
- Cover Her
- Crosstalk: Where Life and Scriptures Meet
- Cupidity: 50 Stupid Things People Do for Love
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- Daddy Daughter Dates
- Date Your Wife
- Dating & Marriage Advice: Allen & Jennifer Parr
- Dating and the Single Parent
- Defending Your Marriage
- Depression: A Stubborn Darkness
- Desire and Deceit
- Die Young
- Discovering a Lifelong Love
- Do Christians Have it Wrong on Sexuality?
- Don Everts: What's it Look Like to Love My Community?
- Don't Let Me Go
- Don't Waste Your Life
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- Eight Important Money Decisions
- Elevating Easter
- Embezzlement
- End the Stalemate: Tim Muehlhoff & Sean McDowell
- Engaging the Culture
- Enhancing Your Marriage
- Enter the Ring
- Entertaining for Eternity
- Everyone a Chance to Hear
- Everything Sad is Untrue: Daniel Nayeri
- Experience God as Your Provider
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- Facing the Blitz
- Faith Legacy
- Faithful Families
- Family I.D.
- Family Shepherds
- Fashioned by Faith
- Father Hunger
- Fear to Freedom
- Fearless
- Feelings and Faith
- Fierce Women
- Finding Help for Your Troubled Teen
- Finding Holiness in Intimacy
- Finding New Life and Love in Christ
- First Time Dad
- Firsthand
- Five Days to a New Marriage
- Five Guidelines for a Successful Marriage
- Flight Plan
- For Men and Women Only
- For Parents Only
- For the Love of Christ
- Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers
- Forgotten God
- Four Pillars of Step-Parenting Success
- From Fear to Freedom
- From Santa to Sexting
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- Gay Girl, Good God
- Generation Ex Christian
- Get Lost
- Get Married: What Women Can Do to Help It Happen
- Get Outta My Face
- Getting Away to Get It Together
- Girl Defined
- Girls Gone Wise
- Glimpses of Grace
- Glorious Mess
- Glory Days
- God At Work Around The World
- God is Enough
- God Is So Good
- God Less America
- God Talk at the Mall
- God Who’s Over It, God Who’s In It: Rechab & Brittany Gray
- God’s Very Good Design
- Gods at War
- God's Plan for Marital Intimacy
- God's Purpose for Marriage
- Good Mood, Bad Mood
- Good Pictures, Bad Pictures
- Gospel Centered Mom
- Grace Filled Marriage
- Grace: More Than We Deserve
- Granny Camp
- Grieving a Suicide
- Growing Older without Growing Old: Dennis & Barbara Rainey
- Growing Together in Courage
- Growing Together in Forgiveness
- Growing Together in Gratitude
- Growing Together in Truth
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- Having a Marriage Without Regrets
- He Is Enough
- He Is the Stability of Our Times
- Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken
- Hedges: Loving Your Marriage Enough to Protect It
- Help For Anxiety in Parenting: David & Meg Robbins
- Help Wanted: Moms Raising Daughters
- Helping Orphans With Special Needs
- Helping Others Build Strong Marriages
- Helping the Hurting
- Hero: Unleashing God's Power in a Man's Heart
- Hidden Joy
- High Performance Friendships
- Holy Is The Day
- Home: A Man's Battle Station
- Homeless Men Stepping Up
- Hooked
- Hope After Betrayal
- How Do I Love Thee?
- How Empty is Your Nest?
- How Pinterest Stole Christmas
- How to Break the Cycle of Divorce
- How to Listen So Your Kids Will Talk: Becky Harling
- How to Pick a Spouse
- How We Love
- Hymns for a Child's Heart
- Hymns in the Modern Day Church
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- I Beg to Differ
- I Do Again
- I Still Believe
- I Take You
- I Will Carry You
- If God Is Good
- If I Could Do It Again
- If My Husband Would Change...
- I'm Happy For You, Not Really
- I'm Not Good Enough
- Image Restored: Rachael Gilbert
- In a Heartbeat
- Independence Day
- Indivisible
- In-Laws, Mates, and Money
- Instructing a Child’s Heart
- Internet Safety 101
- Interviewing Your Daughter's Date
- Introducing Athletes to Jesus
- Is It My Fault?
- Is Your Marriage LifeReady?
- It Starts at Home
- It's All About Love
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- Jackhammered
- Jesus Continued
- Jill's House
- Joy to the World
- Jumping Through Fires
- Just a Minute
- Just Say the Word
- Just Too Busy
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- Lasting Love
- Leaving a Legacy of Destiny
- Letters to My Daughters
- Letting Go of Control
- Liberating Submission
- Lies Men Believe
- Life in Spite of Me
- Listener Tributes
- Living on the Edge
- Living with Less So Your Family Has More
- Locking Arms, Stepping Up
- Loneliness: Don't Hate It or Waste It: Steve & Jennifer DeWitt
- Long Story Short
- Love is an Attitude
- Love Is Something You Do
- Love Like You Mean It
- Love Renewed After Shattered Dreams
- Love Renewed: Adam and Laura Brown
- Love Renewed: Clint and Penny Bragg
- Love Renewed: Hans and Star Molegraaf
- Love Renewed: Lance and Jess Miller
- Love Renewed: Scott and Sherry Jennings
- Love Thy Body
- Love to Eat, Hate to Eat
- Love, Sex, and Lasting Relationships
- Loving the Little Years
- Loving the Way Jesus Loves
- Loving Your Man Without Losing Your Mind
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- Making Love Last
- Man Alive
- Manhood
- Mansfield's Manly Men
- Marking Memorable Moments
- Marriage and Family for God's Glory
- Marriage Forecasting
- Marriage Matters
- Marriage Tested in the Furnace
- Marriage Undercover
- Married to an Unbeliever
- Marry Well
- Mastering the Money Basics
- Mean Mom's Guide to Raising Great Kids
- Measure of Success
- Men and Women: Enjoying the Difference
- Michael Kruger: Surviving Religion
- Mingling of Souls
- Misled: 7 Lies That Distort the Gospel: Allen Parr
- Money and Marriage God's Way
- Money Saving Families
- Moral Purity in Marriage
- More Than A Carpenter (updated): Sean McDowell
- More Than a Wedding: A Closer Look
- More than Championships
- Moving from Fear to Freedom
- MWB Reaction: Collin and Stacey Outerbridge, Joseph Torres, Anna Markham
- My Life as a So-Called Submissive Wife
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- October Baby
- On Pills and Needles
- One of Us Must Be Crazy
- Oops, I Forgot My Wife and Kids!
- Organic Mentoring
- Orphan Justice
- Our Adoption Story
- Out of a Far Country
- Out of the Depths
- Overcoming Emotions that Destroy
- Overcoming Lust
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- Parent Fuel: For the Fire Inside Our Kids
- Parenting Beyond Your Capacity
- Parenting by Design
- Parenting Heart to Heart
- Parenting is Your Highest Calling and Other Parenting Myths
- Parenting Panic: David & Meg Robbins
- Parenting With Kingdom Purpose
- Partner as First Priority: Ron Deal and Gayla Grace
- Picking Up the Pieces
- Planning for Oneness
- Planting Scripture Seeds
- Playing Hurt
- Politics--According to the Bible
- Practicing Affirmation
- Pray Big for Your Family
- Praying With Jesus
- Preach the Whole Gospel
- Preston Perry: How To Tell the Truth
- Psalm 127
- Pure Eyes, Clean Heart
- Pure Pleasure
- Put the Seat Down
- Putting Christ Back in Christmas
- Putting Your Parents in Proper Perspective
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- Raising Unselfish Children
- Reaching Out to the Orphan
- Real Moms, Real Jesus
- Rebooting Christmas
- Rebuilding a Safe House
- Reclaiming Easter
- Reflecting on Twenty Years
- Reflections of Life: A Personal Visit With Bill Bright
- Refreshment for Families
- Rekindling the Family Reformation
- Rekindling the Romance in Your Marriage
- Remarriage After Loss: Ron Deal and Rod & Rachel Faulkner Brown
- Reset: Powerful Habits to Change Your Life: Debra Fileta
- Respectable Sins
- Rethinking Sexuality
- Rich in Love
- Rid of My Disgrace
- Road Trip to Redemption
- Romance for Dummies
- Romance in the Rain
- Runaway Emotions
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- Sacred Influence
- Same Sex Marriage
- Say Goodbye to Survival Mode
- Say it Loud!
- Screens and Teens
- Season of Change
- Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert
- Secrets
- Seeing the Power of God Among Us
- Set-Apart Femininity
- Setting Up Stones
- Seven Reasons Why God Created Marriage
- Sex and Money
- Sex and the Single Christian Girl
- Sex and the Single Girl
- Sex, Dating and Relationships
- Sexual Problems in Marriage
- Sexual Sanity for Men
- Sexual Sanity for Women
- Shame Interrupted
- Sharing Christ with Word and Deed
- Sharing the Love and Laughter
- Shattered
- She Still Calls Me Daddy
- Shelterwood
- She's Got the Wrong Guy
- Shift: Building a Spiritual Legacy for the Next Generation
- Simple Truths
- Single and Free to be Me
- Singleness Redefined
- Six Conversations in an Isolated World: Heather Holleman
- Sleeping Giant
- Smart Phones for Smart Families
- So You're About to Be a Teenager
- Something About Us
- SOS: Sick of Sex
- Soul Surfer
- Speaking Your Spouse's Love Language
- Special Kids with Special Needs
- Spiritual Life Coaching
- Spiritually Single Moms
- Start Your Family
- Starting Your Marriage Right
- Stay at Home Dads
- Stay-at-Home Dads: A Passing Fad or a Choice That's Here to Stay?
- Step Parenting Wisdom
- Stepfamilies and Holidays
- Stepfamily: Blender or Crockpot
- Stepping Up
- Stepping Up to Manhood
- Steps to Manhood
- Stories Behind the Great Songs and Traditions of Christmas
- Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters
- Stumbling Souls: Is Love Enough?
- Surprise Child
- Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriage
- Surrender
- Symphony in the Dark
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- Talking Smack
- Tea Parties With a Purpose
- Teaching Generosity to Your Family
- Teaching Your Kids God's Law
- Teammates in Marriage
- Tech Savvy Parenting
- Technical Virginity
- Ten Questions Every Husband Should Ask His Wife
- Ten Urgent Steps for Spiritually Healthy Families
- Teresa Whiting: Overcoming Shame
- The "Anything" Prayer
- The 10 Habits of Happy Moms
- The 7 Hardest Things God Asks a Woman to Do
- The Accidental Feminist
- The Art of Effective Prayer
- The Art of Parenting: Identity
- The Art of Parenting: Mission and Releasing
- The Art of Parenting: What Kids Need
- The Best Gifts for Wives and Husbands
- The Book of Man
- The Bullying Breakthrough
- The Busy Mom's Guide to Romance
- The Christian Lover
- The Color of Rain
- The Complex World of a Blended Family
- The Connected Child
- The Controlling Husband
- The Creator’s Guide to Marital Intimacy
- The Dad I Wish I Had
- The Dark Hole of Depression
- The Dating Manifesto
- The Disappearance of God
- The Early Seasons of a Woman's Life
- The Emotionally Destructive Relationship
- The Enticement of the Forbidden
- The First Few Years of Marriage
- The Forgotten Commandment
- The Fruitful Wife
- The Gentlemen's Society
- The Good Dad
- The Good News About Injustice
- The Gospel Comes With a House Key
- The Grace Marriage: Brad & Marilyn Rhoads
- The Grace of Gratitude
- The Heart of Jesus: How He Really Feels About You: Dane Ortlund
- The Jesus Storybook Bible
- The King of Kings
- The Leader's Code
- The Life Ready Woman: Thriving in a Do-It-All World
- The Love Dare for Parents
- The Marriage Prayer
- The Masculine Mandate: God’s Calling to Men
- The Missional Marriage
- The Mission-Minded Family
- The Mother-Daughter Duet
- The Mystery of Intimacy in Marriage
- The National Bible Bee 2009 Winners
- The Neighborhood Café
- The New Passport to Purity
- The Passionate Mom
- The Pastor's Kid
- The Person Called You
- The Poverty of Nations
- The Power of A Wife's Affirmation
- The Power of God's Names
- The Power of New Covenant Love
- The Profound Power of a Legacy
- The Protectors
- The Realities of Remarriage
- The Refuge of Faith
- The Reluctant Entertainer
- The Resolution for Women
- The Respect Dare
- The Ring Makes All the Difference
- The Sacred Search
- The Season of Gratitude
- The Second-Half Adventure
- The Secret Life of a Fool
- The Secret of Contentment
- The Shepherd Leader at Home
- The Smart Stepdad
- The Smart Stepmom
- The Soul of Modesty
- The Sticky Faith Guide
- The Unveiled Wife
- The Upside Down Marriage
- The Very First Christmas
- The World's Largest Neighborhood Easter Egg Hunt
- Things That Go Bump in the Night
- Things We've Learned from Dennis and Barbara Rainey
- This Changes Everything
- This Is My Destiny
- Three Essentials for Every Married Woman
- Three Gospel Resolutions
- Three Marks of A Covenant Keeper
- Thriving at College
- Tips for Smart Stepoms
- To Have and To Hold: Tommy Nelson
- To Own a Dragon
- Tongue Pierced
- Transcending Mysteries
- Transformed
- Treasures in the Dark
- Treat Me Like a Customer
- True Success: A Personal Visit With John Wooden
- Trusting God While Treating Cancer
- Turn Around at Home
- Turning Your Heart Toward Your Children
- Twenty-Five Ways to Lead Your Family Spiritually
- Two Hearts Praying as One
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- Undaunted
- Undefiled
- Understanding and Honoring Your Wife
- Understanding Your Child’s Bent
- Unfavorable Odds
- United
- Unraveling the Messiah Mystery
- Unshaken
- Upon Waking: Jackie Hill Perry
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- Waiting for His Heart
- Walking by Faith, Not by Sight
- War of Words
- Warrior in Pink
- Water From a Deep Well
- We Still Do: Michael and Cindy Easley
- Weekend to Remember Getaway Sampler
- Wellness for the Glory of God
- We're in the Money ... Now What?
- What Did You Expect?
- What Do You Think of Me?
- What Does the Bible Say About Homosexuality?
- What Every Husband and Wife Needs to Know
- What God Wants for Christmas
- What He Must Be
- What Husbands Wish Their Wives Knew About Men
- What I Want My Children to Know
- What If Parenting Is the Most Important Job in the World?
- What is the Meaning of Sex
- What To Do About Motherhood Guilt: Maggie Combs
- What's in the Bible?
- Whats's Best for Children
- When Sinners Say 'I Do'
- When Sorry Isn't Enough
- When the Bottom Drops Out
- When the Hurt Runs Deep
- When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography
- Why Do We Call It Christmas?
- Why God is Enough
- Why I Didn't Rebel
- Winning the Drug War at Home
- Winsome Persuasion
- Women of the Word
- Woodlawn
- Word Versus Deed
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FamilyLife Today® is a weekday podcast featuring fun, engaging conversations that help families grow together with Jesus while pursuing the relationships that matter most.
About Dave and Ann Wilson
Dave and Ann Wilson are co-hosts of FamilyLife Today©, FamilyLife’s nationally-syndicated radio program.
Dave and Ann have been married for more than 40 years and have spent the last 35 teaching and mentoring couples and parents across the country. They have been featured speakers at FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember® since 1993, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country.
Dave and Ann helped plant Kensington Community Church in Detroit, Michigan where they served together in ministry for more than three decades, wrapping up their time at Kensington in 2020.
The Wilsons are the creative force behind DVD teaching series Rock Your Marriage and The Survival Guide To Parenting, as well as authors of the recently released books Vertical Marriage (Zondervan, 2019) and No Perfect Parents (Zondervan, 2021).
Dave is a graduate of the International School of Theology, where he received a Master of Divinity degree. A Ball State University Hall of Fame Quarterback, Dave served the Detroit Lions as Chaplain for thirty-three years. Ann attended the University of Kentucky. She has been active with Dave in ministry as a speaker, writer, small group leader, and mentor to countless women.
The Wilsons live in the Detroit area. They have three grown sons, CJ, Austin, and Cody, three daughters-in-law, and a growing number of grandchildren.
Dave and Ann have been married for more than 40 years and have spent the last 35 teaching and mentoring couples and parents across the country. They have been featured speakers at FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember® since 1993, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country.
Dave and Ann helped plant Kensington Community Church in Detroit, Michigan where they served together in ministry for more than three decades, wrapping up their time at Kensington in 2020.
The Wilsons are the creative force behind DVD teaching series Rock Your Marriage and The Survival Guide To Parenting, as well as authors of the recently released books Vertical Marriage (Zondervan, 2019) and No Perfect Parents (Zondervan, 2021).
Dave is a graduate of the International School of Theology, where he received a Master of Divinity degree. A Ball State University Hall of Fame Quarterback, Dave served the Detroit Lions as Chaplain for thirty-three years. Ann attended the University of Kentucky. She has been active with Dave in ministry as a speaker, writer, small group leader, and mentor to countless women.
The Wilsons live in the Detroit area. They have three grown sons, CJ, Austin, and Cody, three daughters-in-law, and a growing number of grandchildren.
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