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The Work of Happily Ever After

March 24, 2025

On this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, Greg and Erin Smalley discuss the work required to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage. They talk about their personal experiences and delve into the idea of 'happily ever after,' exploring how expectations evolve over time. They are joined by Tanner and Whitney Lowe, who share insights from their eight years of marriage, addressing challenges such as conflict, and communication styles. The conversation also touches on the impact of Hollywood's portrayal of sex and intimacy, emphasizing the importance of adhering to a biblical perspective. The episode concludes with a Q&A session, offering advice to a listener struggling with trust issues due to her husband's spending habits.

 

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Past Episodes

On this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, Greg and Erin Smalley explore the complexities of remarriage, focusing on issues such as recurring relationship challenges and the importance of internal evaluation before remarrying. Guest counselors Ron and Nancy Keller share their insights and experiences, emphasizing the importance of grieving and dealing with emotions post-divorce for a successful remarriage. The episode also covers practical advice for blended families and navigating relationships with adult children.   The book that Dr. Ron Keller mentioned, Reconnected, written by Greg & Erin Smalley is also available as a digital experience. For more on the book and the videos available, click here.   Send us your Date Night Disaster stories via voicemail.   If you need to speak to a counselor, just give us a call atn 1800AFAMILY.   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
March 17, 2025
On this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, Greg and Erin speak with Billy and Dani Coker, an interracial couple who navigated their spiritual differences and various life challenges. The discussion covers how Billy and Dani's backgrounds impacted their marriage, and how they managed family traditions and expectations. Additionally, we answer a listener question on encouraging spiritual leadership in marriage and offer tips on relationship 'spring cleaning' to keep marriages vibrant and connected.   Take the first step toward a stronger, more fulfilling relationship with our Marriage Assessment. This insightful tool helps you and your partner identify strengths, address challenges, and deepen your connection.   Help your child navigate identity and belonging with wisdom and grace. Our expert insights offer guidance for parents of interracial children facing challenges related to race, culture, and self-acceptance.   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
March 10, 2025
In this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, Greg and Erin discuss how couples can maintain a thriving marriage while caring for a special needs child with Evan and Karen Reedal. Greg and Erin also talk about personal experiences of navigating responsibilities in the kitchen and teamwork. We'll share tips on taking care of your heart during challenging times and answer a listener's question on the same topic. The episode also includes conversation starters for couples, and a special recipe in the show notes.   Fight Your Way To A Better Marriage mentioned. Article on encouraging social and behavioral development by Tyler Sexton, MD in the show notes.   We are going to put a link in the show notes for a recipe that is featured in the booklet Conversation Starters For Couples. You can find the booklet and more conversation starters here.   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
March 3, 2025
In this episode Greg and Erin discuss the importance of investing in marriage and personal growth with Arlene Pellicane, who talks about her latest book 'Making Marriage Easier' and outlines four key decisions to improve marriage: playing by God's rules, giving thanks, serving one's spouse, and prioritizing fun. The episode covers effective communication strategies, such as discussing sensitive topics with humility and respect, and the importance of self-care. A listener's question regarding a sexless marriage leads to advice on breaking harmful patterns and seeking professional counseling. The episode emphasizes open communication, mutual support, and the significance of having fun in marriage.   Click the show link to get a copy of Making Marriage Easier by Arlene Pellicane   Visit the Marriage Champions Homepage to to sign up for the Marriage Newsletter   Learn More about Healing from Seperation from this article from Erin Smalley   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
February 24, 2025
Romance, sacrifice, and what it means to be a Godly man. These are just a few of the things Jim & Shanna Ramos will help couples understand as they challenge listeners with the responsibility of making their marriage extrordinary.   Click here to receive the book Dialed-In for a gift of any amount!   Go to the Show Notes to link to the full Ted Cunningham presentation.   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
February 17, 2025
In this episode of 'Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage,' Erin and Greg Smalley dive into various aspects of marital life, from the joys of music and family bonding to the dynamics of handling disagreements and difficult seasons. Their guests, Rebecca St. James and her husband Cubbie Fink, provide insights from their book 'Lasting Ever,' reflecting on their personal struggles and the therapeutic journey of writing their life story. They emphasize humility, vulnerability, and the power of conflict resolution in strengthening marital bonds.   Click here to receive the book Lasting Ever for a gift of any amount!   Call Focus on the Family at 1(855) 771-4357, or click here, to receive free counseling consultation.   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
February 10, 2025
Healthy habits in marriage develop only when you are intentional about them. Greg and Erin will continue to share their 12 Romance Secrets that you can incorporate into your relationship to keep the love alive in your marriage.   Click here to receive Greg & Erin's, Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, for a gift of any amount!   Call Focus on the Family at 1(855) 771-4357, or click here, to receive free counseling consultation.   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
February 3, 2025
100th episode! Greg and Erin will cover the importance of Romance Secrets and how to implement them into your marriage. We'll also have a special "Blooper" segment that you won't want to miss!   Click here to receive Greg & Erin's book, Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, for a gift of any amount!   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
January 27, 2025
Are you curious how prayer can come alive in your marriage? Are you and your spouse seeking ways to grow in spiritual intimacy? Join Greg & Erin this week as they sit down with author Jodie Berndt to talk about the benefits of praying together. Later, we hear the love story of a blended family. Then, we answer a question from a listener who wants to know she can encourage her husband's new faith.   Click here to receive Jodie's book, Praying the Scriptures for Your Marriage, for a gift of any amount!   Click here or text the word "PRAY" to 32728 to sign up for the 10-Day Couples Prayer Challenge!   If you and your spouse are in need of counseling, click here to sign up for a free counseling consultation from Focus on the Family   Click here to access Jodie's Marriage Prayer Calendar!   Click here for free resources on remarriage & blended families from Focus on the Family   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
January 20, 2025
Sex is one of the best parts of marriage, but navigating the challenges that accompany it can be difficult. Join Greg & Erin as they sit down with Christian sex experts Dr. Cliff & Joyce Penner to talk about how you and your spouse can approach sex in the way God designed. Later, we talk to counselor Rob Jackson about healing from a sexual past. Then, we answer a question from a listener who wants to know how her and her husband can best divide up responsibility for the kids.   Click here to receive the Couples Guides to Great Sex Bundle - Enjoy! The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women, and, The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex - for a gift of any amount!   If you're in need of counseling, call Focus on the Family at 1(800) 232-6459, or click here, for receive a free counseling consultation.   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
January 13, 2025
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About Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage

Welcome to Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, a podcast from Focus on the Family! Join us every week as Greg and Erin Smalley give you a seat at the table as they dig deep into what a healthy and godly marriage should look like.

About Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley

Greg: Dr. Greg Smalley serves as the vice president of Marriage and Family Formation at Focus on the Family. In this role, he develops and oversees initiatives that prepare individuals for marriage, strengthen and nurture existing marriages and help couples in marital crises.

Erin: Erin Smalley serves as the Marriage Strategic Spokesperson for Focus on the Family’s marriage ministry and develops content for the marriage department.

Contact Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley

Mailing Address
Focus on the Family
8605 Explorer Dr.
Colorado Springs, CO 
80920-1051
Toll-free Number
(800) A-FAMILY (232-6459)